Whitecross club-man Shields says some of the language previously used in changing rooms was “hurtful”, but that he feels more supported within the GAA now.
“It’s been excellent to have allyships and people advocating for it in social media, and around GAA set-ups, and the GPA,” he said.
“I hope speaking out and telling my story will help that younger player, be it male or female, non-binary to express themselves in the GAA environment.”
Shields added that speaking to his sister helped him before he came out.
“I had to find someone I trusted in, that was my sister,” he said.
“I spoke to my sister a lot, and would have a close relationship with her, my partner as well. It’s finding that someone you trust and you want to express yourself to them.
“I found that very helpful whenever I was trying to tell my story and trying to come out. They were the ones that stood by me throughout and supported me whenever I felt down or low in the dumps or in a dark place.
“It doesn’t have to be in front of a group; it can be a one-to-one conversation with someone. That’s how I found it easier, to have that walk on the beach, in a forest or just chatting to someone over a coffee. That was the easiest way for myself.”
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